Update To Photographer Camaraderie Post
Wednesday, September 30th, 2009So I had no idea that my original post about photographer camaraderie would be so popular and with some individuals cause such a firestorm. I am very thankful to all that have supported this way of thinking. To those who disagree I would like to give some background to the impetus of my post.
I posted the photo of Jerry Avenaim and myself because Jerry was the photographer who helped, mentored and still does help me with anything I need related to photography including any issues I may have in my personal life. Jerry is a world famous fashion celebrity photographer and is very approachable. In that photo in the original post we are riding in the back of a limo because we BOTH worked a job out in Vegas that he got for me. The job required two shooters and Jerry called me. We were on our way to the shoot location. He is a friend as well as a colleague that I respect and value immensely. We have been friends for many years, we’ve had our up’s and downs just like any good friends do and over those years he has taught me to respect everyone and to pay it forward and that when you give you also get back tenfold.
When you attend one of his lectures like I have, he shares his values and his voyage of self discovery. His story is very moving and got me thinking even more. The bottom line is that yes we are photographers and sometimes our job is glamorous and fun but at the end of the day we are all human. We all put our pants on one leg at a time. We all make mistakes. As much as we think we can do it all alone, the fact is we can’t. We need help just like no matter how old we are we still need our parents.
As photographers we all have a heart and it is that very fact that having a heart is what makes us good photographers. My point and Jerry’s point is don’t just use your heart to advance your photography career, use it to be a better person, a more caring person and in the end you will be helping others as well as yourself. And that way of thinking my friends is what helps me get through each day and keeps me going to make great photography and great friends.







